As a girl/lady or woman, we usually been judge about our physical appearance. This situation actually make us frustrated when we can't keep up to our partner expectations. Can you imagine how great it is when your partner can still say you look pretty even though you are just in sweat pants! Honestly, we just want to be appreciated for who we are not just on what we look like from the outside because there are so many about us that are interesting and beautiful beside physical appearance. I can say that even the prettiest woman in the world don't want to be judge just on that kind of traits at all.
I'm jealous with man, they don't have to care so much about their appearance. People don't judge them too much like they judge women. Women wont judge man if they hair hairy armpits, but if women have hairy armpits, just be ware girl somebody gonna comment about that. I'm not encouraging women or man to grow their armpit hair, but well guys you know what i meant. The fact that we need to take care about our appearance all the time is just overrated and tiring sometime.
The reality is our figure will never stay the same, and to think about our body one day will sag is just so frightening. However every people in this world will face the ugly truth of ageing, it is just a normal process undergone by all living creature in this world. When this time come the only things that matter is not how you look, obviously you are old with many wrinkles, the one that matter is whats inside you, that make you beautiful. So, you need to love your women with what ever she had inside and out.
As a women, we also doesn't like to disappoint our partner. However, if physical appearance is on top of your list, it surely will leads to dissatisfaction for both couple. This is because it is impossible to look the best all time. Also, women is a very sensitive creature, when they are bombarded with judgement from the other side of sexes, they will build up insecurities inside her. This will make her losing the self esteem, hates how she looks like and not satisfy about her looks all the time. This issue is a serious problem and might develop into much serious psychological problems like anorexia, bulimia, body dysmorphic disorder and many other type of mental illness. So, guys out there, what ever slight prettiness that you notice in your partner, praise her, it will make her feel good and happy.
I'm talking about this is not because i want to force you to fall in love with somebody that you think not attractive, but i'm encouraging you to stop judging a women in just by her physical appearance, take your time to know her inside and out. You can see personality of a women in many sides of a spectrum not only from one side. You might find it shock when you see girl that have many tattoo and piercing on her body can be a person that working in a homeless shelter every weeks, who knows.
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